Vrindavan diaries 

Vrindavan- the once land of Krishna Raas Leela, reverberating with the music of his flute, is now a small town dominated by Krishna temples of all sizes reverberating with the honking of Rickshaws and Autos!

Vrindavan nowadays is flooded with people mainly from UP, Haryana and Delhi. The crowd on Christmas Eve was maddening. Aahana got nearly crushed and panicked… The narrow lanes and bylanes are cute but broken and difficult to walk through… Too many plots under construction, Dim street lights with frequent load-sheddings, swarm of blinkered bhakts and narrow lanes make honking unavoidable!

Didn’t Visit ISKCON coz I knew it would be a crazy crazy scene… Every one out of five buildings probably would be having a mandir of its own… We had our own too! 

We saw “bhakts” going ga ga over one drop of Prasad or one flower that they got in the main Baankey Bihari temple… Pundits leave no stone unturned to make you feel blessed and in demand and in return they charge a hefty “Dakshina” from the “Seths and Sethanis”… Over the years they have constructed multi-storied buildings for themselves leading a Life full of stale gyan, lazy money and super duper food…

People think God resides in Murtis in temples and that’s the irony!

Food is the name of the game here… Lassi, Chaat, Rabdi, Chilla, Milk, Pedas are what you see everywhere and wherever you go… Monkeys know the fine art… They will snatch away your glasses or phones and will return them only when you buy them food in clear negotiation… Therefore, in this business of Godliness, the monkeys come out as clear winners coz they aren’t fake and know how to earn their breads!

While the people seek Materials from God, the Pundits seek materials from people by faking all the blessings on behalf of God, forming a never-ending circle…

It was cold but much warmer than last year… Soaked in the Sun and the energy… Had fun for a good 10 days with family at the Ashram!

Stop it!

Can we stop the fooling around in the name of God?? Can we be more human?
Last two years I have stopped being a part of such dramas despite belonging to the authentic Agarwal family who are extremely God-fearing and can go to any extent of spending when it comes to their religion and rituals…
Let’s save it for our future generation! The scarcity is ever increasing… 

 

In the middle of nowhere…

Why can’t I be a proverb in a world full of similies and analogies…

        And why can’t there be a world that’s free of namesakes and terminologies…

A world where there’s no right way or wrong way, but an “Express”way,

        A place where there’s no black or white, but a clear shade of transparent grey…

A World where there’s no boiling or freezing point but just the right temperature for a successful pollination,

        A place where I can Live, Laugh and Love freely and affirmatively without any guilt, shame or accusation…

A world where Life’s just a beautiful journey for the growth of the loyal soul,

        A place where the universe will manifest my desires effortlessly without any embedded goal…

A world where the only goal would be to be happy, live beautifully and laugh out loud in vain,

        May be I am one of the privileged members of the society and hence can afford to sound insane…

Aurangabad trip 25th and 26th July 2015

If humans could claim every rock as God and worship it with or without faith, what would they fathom out about these ones… 
These do not boast or proclaim… They just stand there…STILL and CALM…for 1000s of years now…as rock solid rocks…in utmost humility and confidence…giving us an opportunity to imagine how grand yet humble we can be…
Aurangabad- the city named after the Mughal riot- Aurangzeb (Son of Shahjahan) is a city of rocks and caves and forts and gates… 
Mom completed her 12th and last Jyotirling darshan- Grishneshwar…and we were glad about it… Rohan (my younger brother) said she has become a celebrity now 😉
Spicy local food (If u pick up a plate of poha on your way, it’s actually green chillies cooked in little poha) with nothing much to look out for… Their dialect is a little weird with people saying ‘Khayenga, jayenga’ ;)…As far as shopping goes, we picked up a couple of Raw Silk stuff from Mughal Silk Bazaar and Paithani Weaving Center… 
The weather was our true friend… It did not rain and it did not burn… It was quite pleasant and windy… All in all a power packed trip…
Some amazing clicks of Ellora Caves from my IPhone 6… 🙂

   

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

Soul to Soul with my DAD

Whenever I receive a compliment, I know it’s more about you,
Whenever someone thanks me, I pass that on to you…
Whenever someone touches my heart, I know it is ruled by you,
Whenever someone loves me, I know I am blessed by you…
Whenever I am sensitive, I know you will hold my heart,
Whenever I get fearful, I know you will not let me rip apart…
Whenever I look at myself in the mirror, I know you are feeling proud of me,
Whenever the Sun shines bright on my face, I know you have shredded away the nimbus for me…
I haven’t been able to get much of you in this life but you had to step up to illuminate my way,
It’s been lakhs of years that my soul knows of you and forever with you would be less on the highway…
We will cross the mountains and bridges and oceans and laugh out loud at the world again,
Coz only Love is for Real… Rest everything goes in complete vain…

The Si-Bling* factor

Today I recall an incident that’s still fresh as a daisy in my memory… That summer evening while still basking in the glory of the tag ‘newly wedded’, we walked out of a buzzing mall of Mumbai to head home in a rick. While I enjoyed my ice-cream, a little girl on the signal, maudlin and worn-out, kept gazing at me. I handed over my half- eaten ice-cream to her thinking she would dig into it, but my heart sank at what I saw after that. Thrilled, she quickly ran towards her baby brother who sat on the pavement like a little Humpty-Dumpty, too young to beg, and handed it over to him while herself watching him with twinkling-little-starry-eyes, a proud smile that did not accentuate her not-so-chubby-cheeks, and her heart melting away in anxiety like the ice-cream. I could not have experienced such deep and profound love for a sibling ever in my world.

The “si-bling” factor in my life is my younger sister, the rebellion and go-getter, who has always given me advise on my naivety rather than seek from me. I fondly remember an incident of our childhood when we had three chocolates with us. While we brainstormed on how we could distribute them equally between us, she smartly expressed to gobble up one herself which would eventually leave us with two which could now be accurately divided between us. In my innocence I agreed when my mother over-heard us and made me understand the trick. I was shocked and at the same time embarrassed.

Be it the choice of neon colors in her wardrobe, choice of exotic food on her plate or her genuine belly laughter, the rainbow of her personality has always reflected colorful and the diamond of her character has always blinged brilliantly…

Friendship is blissful!

That awesome space on earth where you both are standing beside each other without being pushy or judgemental, where when you fall, the other one promptly picks you up and supports your limp until its gone, where ‘taken for granted’ is an ancient and sub-standard phrase, where Listening to each other’s stories is the best form of entertainment and where there is immense love, care and sunlight, is the sacred space of awesome FRIENDSHIP…

That’s how beautiful it is!

Chai ki tapri

This is a paradise in the form of a little Tapri (a little hut kinda shop) very common in Indian cities that make up for a quick adda (a small gathering of friends or colleagues)… I never miss the very Indianised full milk cutting (half cup) coffee here whenever I am in the vicinity… Its situated off a busy road in the heart of the city in a bylane thats quiet and green too… Its earthy, grounded, quick and blissful 🙂

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